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Bullying is an inconsiderate, unforgiving
matter. Bullying includes; people calling you names, beating,
pinching, piercing, pushing or shoving(hurting), stealing
your money, taking your friends away from you, making silent
or abusive phone calls , sending you offensive phone texts
,and posting insulting messages on the internet or by IM,
are a few ways bullying is showed.
I think that the best idea is if a teacher
can catch the bullies red-handed, that way, you won't get
into bother from anyone for telling a tale. It will be obvious
to everybody what has been happening. Don't be tempted to
punch back since you may get injured or get into trouble.
Bullies don't like witnesses.
On a bus, try to sit near the driver. If
you have to walk part of the way, and you're afraid of being
attacked, then change up your route, try to leave home and
school soon after or a bit in advance, or ask if you can walk
with neighbors, that you know, who live close to you, even
if they're older or younger. If you are going somewhere farther
away from your house or school try to go somewhere that probably
has CCTV so if you're attacked in the street the police may
be able to get proof. There isn't just one kind of bully there
are two kinds; one is the bully who beats you up and taunts
you, and the kind that is a person who sees it all happen
but doesn't do anything about it. People who are being bullied
need friends so if you are able to help out somebody who is
so miserable, please do so.
You could think about martial arts classes
so that you are self-assured that you can look after yourself
if crucial. If people are making cruel comments regarding
you then it may be for the reason that they are jealous. Possibly
you're better looking than they are or work harder or maybe
the teacher(s) like you more than them. One technique of handling
the comments is just to say ...yeah, whatever, every time
consequently that you give yourself an idea about them that
it isn't having the result of offending you in the way they
believe. The bullies will have worked out what buttons to
press on to create an upset you. They may make comments about;
your weight, your looks, the color of your hair, your family,
your schoolwork, if you are popular, if you work hard, if
you have a disability, if you are a different religion, color
or culture, if you wear glasses, if you have dyslexia, or
if you've been out of school because you were sick.
Bullying Online gets emails from different
students who have stopped eating because they've been called
fat or stupid, because they aren't as smart as you. There
was once a girl who tried to burn her freckles off because
of cruel comments. The thing all these people had in common
was that they were perfectly ordinary, nice people who had
the bad luck to come up against a very horrible person. If
you have a cell phone, be careful who you give your number
to. If you get intimidating or insulting phone calls or text
messages then tell your parents. It is an illegal offence
to send offensive or threatening phone messages and if it
continues, it can also amount to harassment. The police can,
and do, take action for crimes like this.
Body language tells everyone a lot about
other people. If you're trying not to be noticed and looking
at the ground a lot while dashing into school it can make
you more visible. If you look defenseless and weak, you are
a bully's target so try to make yourself, look tough, but
if you try to hard the bully will know you are faking it.
Just don't forget to ask for help, sometimes
bullying can make you feelsad and upset and that being alive
isn't worth existing but you will come through it, if you
get help as soon as you can.
Once my friend Michelle was being
bullied persistently, she's had people beating her and the
other day she had to go to hospital because she had a broken
finger. She was sick to death and sometimes she felt like
killing herself, she tried to commit suicide, but I stopped
her, she even cut herself. I felt sorry for her when it was
happening, but I didn't know what to do.
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