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Nachelle Jurgensmier
Logan Hocking Middle School
Logan, Ohio
Nachelle Jurgensmier is a 13-year-old student at Logan Hocking
Middle School in Logan, Ohio. She participated in the MindOH! Foundation's
2002 Character's Cool Contest, and won an Experience
Music Project Prize Pack.
The Character's Cool Contest was a national contest for middle
school students to help stop school violence and to encourage the
practice of ethical behavior. Participants completed an online survey
about their experiences in the aftermath of Sept 11th, bullying
and school violence, and the ethical behavior and character qualities
needed to reduce school violence.
When asked about the first emotion she felt upon learning about
the September 11th attacks, Nachelle felt shock. Nachelle's parents
and school both talked to her about the events of September 11th.
Nachelle thinks it's possible for one country to bully another
country, and she's actually seen someone being bullied in her school.
Logan Hocking Middle School takes measures to prevent bullying and
violence. "We have peer mediators to talk with the students,"
Nachelle wrote.
Nachelle thinks it's important for young people to learn how to
manage their anger and resolve conflicts peacefully, and she thinks
that it's important to be respectful of others, even when you disagree.
She thinks that there are certain character qualities people need
to have to reduce violence: Honesty, Respect, Responsibility, Kindness,
Cooperation, Love, and Self Control.
Logan Hocking Middle School teaches Nachelle about these character
qualities through Second Step in health. Nachelle also tries to
think about and practice these qualities when she gets in fights
with siblings.
Nachelle's Character's Cool Contest essay provides some great perspective
about stopping school violence.
"Ethical behavior, what is it? To a common teenage kid it
is being the "Goody-goody" or the "Suck up".
Although, the true definition is, treating of morals, right principles,
or professional conduct. To put it in easier terms, having maturity
and character. Now most adults figure "They're old enough to
know this stuff already." In actuality though, most students
have no idea what any of that means. In most cases, teenagers feel
like they have to prove something to their friends so they can be
a part of the "cool" group. In situations like these,
they'll act like someone they are not. Usually in types of situations,
this is what happens.
One day you and your group of friends are walking home from school.
You happen to pass another kid you know that is waiting for his
ride. You know right away there's going to be trouble because this
is the type of kid that everybody makes fun of. You know, the common
nerd, the "different one". You try to keep walking but
your friends are already halfway across the street. As you slowly
trudge behind them your friends begin the teasing. The annoying
name-calling and smacks are in place when you see the kid fall to
the ground. One of your so-called friends snickers, "This one
was especially easy guys, looks like we got some new material."
You shudder at his rude comments but dare not speak up. As you all
turn to walk away you give him a kick, to show your friends that
you're brave and rebellious too.
Now, I know you've heard stories like these but have you ever experienced
them? I highly doubt it, and even so you most likely didn't say
a word to try and defend the one being picked on. You simply allow
yourself to be pulled into the group as well. These are the type
of situations that create violence at school. Students feel protected
when they are with a group that everybody else is afraid of. Never
stopping to think who is watching them and whom they are being an
example to.
I think that character education can reduce violence in our schools
greatly. Character education would teach students that they could
say, "I'm a leader, not a follower." It would show them
how to deal with peer pressure as well, not to mention revealing
to them who they really are, not who they are trying to be. Teaching
character education will show teens that they can all be ethical.
And that people behaving ethically are not the ones that have the
"perfect life", they are the ones that have a good heart
and respect for others."
The Character's Cool Contest is not the first contest Nachelle
has won. She recently participated in the "Power of the Pen"
competition and received 9th place out of over 100 students. She
has also had her poetry published in a book and she has been published
twice in the Columbia Dispatch.
Nachelle has a number of hobbies. "I am part of the basketball
cheerleading squad, track team, student council, Lancaster swim
team, twirling group, and I am learning expressive sign language.
I enjoy reading and writing."
Nachelle's favorite subjects in school are English and Spanish.
In her spare time, she talks a lot on the phone and Internet to
friends. "After school sometimes we go downtown to eat. On
weekends we stay at each other's houses, and we spend most of our
free time together!"
When asked where she would go if she could travel anywhere in the
world, Nachelle would go to South Africa or Japan. "I plan
on going on a summer mission trip in 2003 to South Africa. I would
like to go those places because I like the views and geography of
South Africa and all of the animals. Japan just seems like a fascinating
country to visit."
Although Nachelle does not know yet what she wants to be when she
grows up, she might like to travel and help children around the
world.
Nachelle is energetic, curious, adventurous, intelligent and funny.
If she could give one piece of advice to other U.S. students about
stopping school violence, Nachelle wrote, "Live life for yourself,
to achieve your own goals, not for other people who you don't love
and trust."
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